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angry husband
| Wed, 07-18-2007 - 3:39pm |
my best friend of 20 years is married to a man who is wonderful in his own way he provides and takes care of the kids.He becomes angry and begins to get hostile almost as if he has a mental disorder.When my friend tries to suggest he seek help he says there is nothing wrong with him.Sometimes he gets angry just out of the blue. He is also very abusive never to the kids but to my friend. can anyone offer any suggestions?

really, this isn't your problem, it is hers.
is she seeking help in trying to change him?
It is impossible - absolutely IMPOSSIBLE - to help someone unless they can 1) admit to having a problem and 2) admit to wanting to change.
The only person your friend can help, at this point, is herself. I'm sorry I wish there were a better answer but you cannot tell someone how to fix themselves if they aren't willing.
Welcome to the board keekee31,
Invite her to iVillage, especially the domestic abuse board..... his anger and abuse is not going to go away on it's own.
For her:
I am unable ot give legal or medical advice. My opinions are based on my experiences and my personal research.