It's better to tell him that you want to take it slow now, and risk hurting his feelings a little, than to let him continue thinking that this is comfortable and great with you when it's not.
You can try saying something like: "Hey I just want you to know I really enjoy spending time with you, but I'm usually more of a physically reserved person than this and I'd like to take this a little slower. I promise to let you know when I want to hold your hand or kiss you, ok?"
It's better to tell him that you want to take it slow now, and risk hurting his feelings a little, than to let him continue thinking that this is comfortable and great with you when it's not.
You can try saying something like: "Hey I just want you to know I really enjoy spending time with you, but I'm usually more of a physically reserved person than this and I'd like to take this a little slower. I promise to let you know when I want to hold your hand or kiss you, ok?"
Perhaps this is not the man for you?
Welcome to the board crazyladyfromak,
eggbertshootsfire and coolas give you excellent advice about slowing down, being comfortable and finding your voice.