Anxiety Over BF's Female Co-worker
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Anxiety Over BF's Female Co-worker
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 9:29am |
My bf is starting a new job working for a woman with whom he worked previously at another company. When he took a tour of his new office, he noticed that there didn't seem to be an office for him. A few days later, he mentioned that he would be sharing an office with his new boss. I am worried about this working arrangement. She is very beautiful and seems to get along quite well with my bf. I've noticed how they interact at a few office functions that I attended with him. Although, I admit it could my opinion of them could also be a bit exaggerated b/c I am a little jealous. She is also married and pregnant. So, I'm not too worried that anything will happen. This new environment just makes me somewhat uncomfortable. I'm wondering if there is an easy way for me to tell him my concerns. I've never asked him if there was ever anything between them. Probably my biggest concern is that I have been in a relationship where my boyfriend cheated. I just don't want it to happen to me again. So, I'm always extra cautious in my relationships now. Any advice?
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| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 10:40am |
Maybe you can casually ask him if he is attracted to her if you are hesitant about their professional relationship. The woman is married and pregnant so I would have to say that you may be overreacting just a little. Be open and honest with him about your feelings, the key to a well functioning relationship is communication.
