any suggestions please

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2007
any suggestions please
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Mon, 10-29-2007 - 4:06pm

My gf and me were together for 5 months and we split up. we split because we spent to much time together and wanted a break plus she didnt want to be tied down anyways. Its been 3 months now, we haven’t had much contact as we wanted the dust to settle. However I hadn’t seen her for 2 months and we saw each other in town on sat night we had a 10 min chat just asking how each other was e.t.c firstly she heared a rumour i was seeing someone which i put her straight that i wasnt and secondly she told me last week she had read my letter again that I sent just after we broke up I wasn’t to sure what to say but I said ok. All I wrote on the letters was just to say that glad were still friends I still miss her now and again thanks for the time we had together that sort of thing. So Do you find it strange her bringing up the fact she has been reading the letter?
A lot of people tell me to just wait for her to make the first move cos it was her that finished the relationship but then maybe she is worried what i might say if she wants to start it again? its been over a week since we last spoke do you think i should give it nother week or so then if not arrange to meet up and see how it goes??

any suggestions please

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 5:33pm

Hi,


I replied to you on the other board..... I think you ought to ask her, because if you don't, it's really going to bother you in the long run.






iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 2:00am

I recommend you just ask her whether she's interested in getting back together.