anyone got back together with ex??
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anyone got back together with ex??
| Tue, 06-15-2004 - 6:51pm |
Just a question out of curiosity...as I don't think its really possible.
Has anyone out there SUCCESFULLY rekindled a relationship with an ex?
If so under what circumstances and after how long being apart?
Thanks!

Unless you resolve any and all issues that plaqued you while being a couple, its only a matter of time before you will repeat the same arguments over and over again. People tend to forget why they broke up in the first place, placing the relaionship on a pedastal.
Someone was posting here for awhile that wanted to get back together with an ex and i said the same thing. You have to distance yourself from the previous relaitonship and IF you get back together be at totally different emotional places in your life.
The hting is most people don't deal with the problems they had in a relaitonship, i.e., a lot of people think that just breaking up is dealing. But unless you realize what role you played and how to change it and then ACTUALLY change it. We are all going to repeat the same patterns over and over.
Thats why i was wondering if anyone HAD actually learnt something from their past relationship, changed it, moved on, and then got back together with someone from their past but in a totally different relationship.