While I totally understand why you would want to "snoop", I can't say that it's a good idea. When you have the idea in your head that DH is doing something wrong, then no matter what you find, you will always make it fit your suspicions... not intentionally, but that's usually how things happen. Even if
As long as you prioritize your witch-hunt to find anything to make your husband wrong, the more damage you will cause for your marriage.
If you honestly want this 4 person friendship to grow and prosper, then start acting like a real friend to all of the people.
Welcome to the board carolann1128,
I can understand why you don't trust him. Have you found anything in your sleuthing to indicate they are more than just friends?
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While I totally understand why you would want to "snoop", I can't say that it's a good idea. When you have the idea in your head that DH is doing something wrong, then no matter what you find, you will always make it fit your suspicions... not intentionally, but that's usually how things happen. Even if
Welcome to the board carolann1128,
Sorry after two affairs,
I dont understand why he and the other guy arent buddy buddy.
Your concerns touch on values and what is appropriate and what is not appropriate behavior within a relationship.