Are we Broken up or what????
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Are we Broken up or what????
| Wed, 08-18-2004 - 12:50pm |
Hey girls (and guys) So me and my boyfriend were together about 3 years and it was getting pretty serious. Everyone started asking him when we were gettign married and he started to pull away (we're only 22). Then we got in an argumetn and he said he didnt want to be together anymore. He said that he just wanted to be alone for now. The thing is that I dont feel like anything has changed. That was months ago and we still act like we are together. We say I love you alot, we hang out like we used to and we kiss and stuff. I know that he doesnt wnat anyone else and that he still loves me but its like he just doesnt want the title anymore. He says we arent together but he also says that we are more than friends. His mother told me I shouldnt be bothered not having the label because his actions speak louder than his words but I would appreciate others opinions. Thanks so much in advance. :)


Carrie
Just because he is continuing an emotional and physical relationship with you does not mean he has good intentions. If he really loved you, he wouldnt have a problem "labeling" your relationship. The only reason to avoid a "label" is to make sure that he can change his mind and run in the other direction without having to say sorry. Technically, if he meets another woman, he has no commitment to you and can do what he wants. Hopefully he hasnt done that already, but keep in mind that if he was really in love with you, he wouldnt care what label you have. Marriage can be scary to alot of people (men and women) but its not a reason to pretend not to be together.