Are we going to get back together?

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Are we going to get back together?
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 9:22am
My boyfriend and I broke up a little over 5 weeks ago. Over that time period, I still lived in the house with him and another roommate but still had my own room. I had to stay because my apartment wasn't ready yet. Well, over that 5 weeks we still talked but I felt no emotion or affection from him. Anyway, I finally moved into my apartment 5 days ago. Two days after I moved out, he called me 3 times in one day and left me a message asking if I wanted to watch a movie. We did and it was nice. Then, the next night he called and wanted to come over. He ended up spending the night with me and it was great to have someone next to me again. When I asked him why he came over, he said he really wanted to see me. He was really affectionate that night and the morning after, always wanting to hold my hand and kiss me. However, nothing has been said about him wanting to try to work on things. What should I think?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 10:03am
Who broke up with whom and why?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:06am
He broke up with me...I told him I wanted to move out because things were way too close. We had no time apart in the sense that I lived there and had to stay there every night. We were fighting a lot and that was the major reason we broke up. Since, then we have been getting along fine and not really fighting at all.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 12:49pm
Ask him what he's thinking and what he wants.

Right now he has all the benefits without a committment or real relationship.


Carrie