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Registered: 06-10-2003
Asked for help
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Sun, 10-12-2008 - 7:51am

Am I wrong to feel so disappointed? My exboyfriend and I have managed to remain friends throughout the years (11yrs). During this time we have dated on and off, the last few years more off, although he still tries to sleep with me. I have done numerous favors for him throughout our friendship (gave him a place to stay for almost a week when his girlfriend kicked him out, loaned my car, watched his daughter, etc.) That's what you do when someone who is a good friend, is in need and you can help out. Well I recently started dating again and developing a social life, I was out the other night at a barbecue and my date got drunk and I did not want him to give me a ride home

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: sanchezmar
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 11:36am

Welcome to the board sanchezmar,


He's not a friend.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
In reply to: sanchezmar
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 4:24pm
Didyou pass judgment on him during his times of crises? No..probably not. Then he is not a friend who will give you back what you have given him.
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Registered: 06-10-2003
In reply to: sanchezmar
Mon, 10-13-2008 - 5:05pm
Thank you, I guess deep down I already knew the answer, its just hard to face that after all this time he really isnt a friend.
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Registered: 05-11-2008
In reply to: sanchezmar
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 8:13am

If this incident is enough to kill off the friendship, then it was awfully close to death before you called him.