Awful breakup over -- believe it or not -- auto damage. Help!!

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Registered: 10-21-2009
Awful breakup over -- believe it or not -- auto damage. Help!!
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Tue, 06-28-2011 - 12:23pm

Guys,

I am not sure this goes in the "Ask the Relationship Saver".

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Registered: 05-20-2009

Do the right thing?

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Well, it was her nearly new car and it doesnt come cheap.Yeah, insurance is there but no one likes a new car to be scratched. It seems that she has taken you as an irresponsible guy and that was a deal breaker for her.

She probably believes now that she cant trust you on her stuff.Overboard?Maybe.Past relationships teach one a lot.
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Registered: 10-21-2009

I think you are right on the money.

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Registered: 03-27-2003

I would ask the question why you are attracted to her.

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Registered: 07-29-2002

If you truly do intend to pay for the damages and rental, then contact both the rental agency and the body shop directly.

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Registered: 11-28-1999

I think you are very lucky that she showed this craziness now compared to before you got married.

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Registered: 10-21-2009

You guys are awesome!!!!

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Registered: 03-09-2006
First of all, I have to say she really does have issues and is not you with the problem. Shes over reacting over a FEW scratches in her bumper and if you pay her that amount with out seeing an invoice then you are crazy do so. Sorry for being so BLUNT. I drive a Honda Accord 2010 and I got into an accident that both drivers & passenger side door were badly dented and messed up. and that job cost $5000 to replace both doors, pain and everything else. Scratches in her front and rear bumper dont cost that much like shes demanding. Thats why she pays INSURANCE for that reason which insurance covers that...This is too much drama for you, You been there dont that, the marriage the kids that you just want to be with someone to love and care for but under these circumstances is not worth it. She has A LOT of issues which it has nothing to do with you. This is something she has to deal on her own and honestly you sure dont need to be caught up in that mess and drama. Shes 33 yrs old it makes her an ADULT not a CHILD. So yopu have to think to yourself do you really want to be around and next to a woman that act the way she does, one minute shes fine the next shes insulting you. Do you really want to waste time with a woman that has anger issues???That you have to walk on egg shells hoping she wont snap. That's too much and you just should walk away now. You have no kids, no Investment, or anything in that matter that ties yo to her. Block her number, email address and anything that she can communicate with you and get on with your life. There are plenty of FISHES in the sea.