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Bachelor Party
| Tue, 09-21-2004 - 2:08pm |
This past weekend, my boyfriend went back to his hometown (which is several states away from where we currently live)to participate in his best friend's bachelor party and upcoming wedding. He called me early Sunday morning to tell me the details about the party. He said that they went to a strip club, which I have no problem with. But, he basically bragged to me about how all the strippers supposedly gave him free lap dances while his friends blew hundreds for them. I guess his point was that the strippers thought he was so great it was a treat for them to give him a lap dance, and they didn't want any money (I know, I was thinking "yeah right"!).
The worst part of it is, he said one stripper kept coming back to him and hitting on him. He said that she asked him if she could kiss him, and he said "sure". After that he said she told him that she got off work later if he wanted to meet up with her. After he told me all this, he said he was turned off by her, but that it was an ego booster.
I have no idea how to feel about this. We have been dating for 6 months and nothing like this has ever happened. We've actually gotten really close lately and he brought pictures of me back home to show his mom. If anything, I've been the one who is really wild in the relationship, because I like to look at porn and I'm bisexual (but I would never cheat on him). I went to a really raucous bachelorette party two weeks ago complete with a male stripper, which I told my BF about (but of course I wasn't kissing on and picking up the male stripper).
The thing I am most upset about, was that it didn't seem like he told me all this apologetically. It was more like he was bragging to me! I keep thinking he must not respect me or maybe he is just trying to make me jealous, which are both really crummy. I'm also scared maybe this stripper gave him some disease orally. He won't be home for another week, and I don't want to talk about this with him on the phone. I don't know what to say or how to feel. This behavior seems so out of character for him. Please give me your insight on the situation!
The worst part of it is, he said one stripper kept coming back to him and hitting on him. He said that she asked him if she could kiss him, and he said "sure". After that he said she told him that she got off work later if he wanted to meet up with her. After he told me all this, he said he was turned off by her, but that it was an ego booster.
I have no idea how to feel about this. We have been dating for 6 months and nothing like this has ever happened. We've actually gotten really close lately and he brought pictures of me back home to show his mom. If anything, I've been the one who is really wild in the relationship, because I like to look at porn and I'm bisexual (but I would never cheat on him). I went to a really raucous bachelorette party two weeks ago complete with a male stripper, which I told my BF about (but of course I wasn't kissing on and picking up the male stripper).
The thing I am most upset about, was that it didn't seem like he told me all this apologetically. It was more like he was bragging to me! I keep thinking he must not respect me or maybe he is just trying to make me jealous, which are both really crummy. I'm also scared maybe this stripper gave him some disease orally. He won't be home for another week, and I don't want to talk about this with him on the phone. I don't know what to say or how to feel. This behavior seems so out of character for him. Please give me your insight on the situation!

Carrie