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| Thu, 08-07-2008 - 10:47am |
Hello to everyone!
Bit of history my ex and I have been on and off for 4yrs. Last year I had an emotional affair and we have been working through that. We were planning on moving to Mexico for a year since she got a job there. I was willing to give up a great paying job to be down there with her.
We broke up about 2 months ago and I did the bad thing of calling her lots. Well I havent called her for two weeks now. What I did do was I left her a simple note in her mail box before she left for Mexico. My question is what do I do now? Just sit and see what happens.
I am completly in love with this girl and the hard thing is her best friend who has known her for her whole life tells me shes just being stupid and her sister tells me just give it time. My head is

You aren't living and staying in the moment. You are already planning Sept and we've just begun August.
Hi yes I did give her the letter I wanted to with a few revisions. I am trying to live in the moment I guess its just different focussing on myself....if that makes any sense. Its as if for the four years I have buried myself in her. I am making plans though for myself and doing more things. Its hard when you work for 21 days straight at oil processing plant and dont get out much.
I hear you.