bak to reality?

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Registered: 08-23-2007
bak to reality?
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Mon, 04-14-2008 - 1:00am
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: amike
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 7:46am

I think you're the one who needs the reality check here. Sorry.
He's not as into you as you are into him.
And... his responsibility is to himself before you.

I'm in the computer field as well and most of my friends from RIT moved to DC in order to get jobs.

If you want to remind him of his relationship responsibilities and ask him to put more effort into being with you then that is absolutely your prerogative, but this guy doesn't seem to mind having a webcam relationship with you and I'm wondering why you aren't out looking for a new boyfriend already.

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Registered: 07-29-2002
In reply to: amike
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 10:19am

I agree.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: amike
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 5:20pm

Welcome to the board,


While I can agree with the others that your bf should take the intership if it is good for him, I can understand why you would be upset. Let him know how this makes you feel.

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Registered: 07-10-1999
In reply to: amike
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 7:52pm
Have you spoken to him about his reasons for the things he does? Maybe there are good reasons. He can't afford to visit right now or working in Washington has always been his biggest dream in life. But it may just be that you are not a big priority in his life right now. Try to keep an open but cautious mind and see what's going on. If it's just that seeing you isn't important to him, then maybe the relationship does not mean as much to him as it does to you. You can't change him if that's the case. In that case, it's probably better to just move on.