best way to let down a date?
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best way to let down a date?
| Tue, 06-08-2004 - 5:55am |
Just out of curriocity. I had a talk with my best friend today and she has been on two blind dates this week. The guys absolutely adored her and were bending over backwards to win her attention (she is lovely my friend) but she doasn't find them even remotely attractive or interesting for that matter. What is the best way to let a date (which was otherwise perfect) down without hurting anyone's feelings? She is really fretting about it and when she received a text from contestant number one she replied in a polite but neutral way. She dreads the follow up calls/textx, whetever.
So what is the best way
So what is the best way

If it is in regards to online dating, I would be tempted to send an email saying something to the effect, "I enjoyed meeting you and thank you for a nice evening. I do not feel we are a match but I do wish you all the best for finding your someone special."
After she has gone on a lot of blind dates she will find out that this is the easiest way on everyone.
Thanks for the answers
Sadie