Betraying Fiance
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Betraying Fiance
| Wed, 03-28-2007 - 2:38am |
Mine is a long story.I m from Bangladesh. I am engaged to my High school sweetheart.We had been goin out for 8 years now. In between he cheated on me. After that he apologized said he wants me n thats when we got engaged. Yesterday I found out that he has another mobile phone number that I am not aware of and he has called that girl he had cheated me with!When I asked him he said very recently he has got this nu number and just felt like calling her. To more of my surprise I have found on his other phone message from another girl saying that she hasnt seen him for long now and if he could come and see her!His version was this was some girl he knew long time ago maybe and she is wanting to meet him!Then I found pic of a naked foreigner girl on his handset and he said its a downloaded pic!He is telling me that wutever he tries to tell me now its not goin to go through my head cuz I m blind with doubts now!He says he really loves me n he wants to marry me n the way I am seeing things is not rite. He doesnt have anything to do with any of the girls!In such a situation I dont know wut to do>Can u please help. I luv him alot n I know he loves me too but u know the situation I m in I can never trust him n I know what all of u will say that I shud never believe him. I know that, its like I m purposely being blind but I m enagaged to him n The kind of society we live in here it is not possible to break up with him. Wut can I do?I pain I m goin through is unbareable.He had been cheating on me repeatedly even though I know he loves me.Wut am I supposed to do?Pls help me. I luv him alot!

I'm really sorry that you are in pain. I sincerely hope that you and your fiance can work things out.
Have you thought about what he can do to make things better and help you trust him more? Would he be willing to do them?
Hi numaira and welcome to the board,
Since there are cultural differences, is there anyone you can talk to about this, like your mom, sister, aunt, etc?
numaira,
I can tell from your post that you are in a pain over his treatment of you. Is there any way in your culture that you can end the relationship given the circumstances? Or any way you can get couples counseling or something to help you work through all of these. Is there any available for you to talk to that can help you?
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