BF and super fun party friend
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BF and super fun party friend
| Thu, 09-20-2007 - 11:46am |
I've been with my BF for 4 months. Before we met, he was hanging out with his 'super fun' friend. She is married, but in a weird open marriage where she and her spouse spend lots of time apart. When my BF was single, the

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Welcome to the board ashley,
Since this is bothering you, you need to talk to your bf about this. Chances are since they were friends before he met you he isn't going to end the friendship. Suggest that they limit the number of times they go out together in a week. Let him know how this makes you feel.
Good luck.
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::it bothers me that he's out having fun with her and doing things that I would like to be doing with him...
:: Tell him exactly that.
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Welcome to the board ashley856,
I agree with Coltara and would suggest you start a conversation - somewhere in there "I really miss our late night dinners once a week, can we start doing that again?"
'lots of fun.'
Did this fun involve anything sexual?
Tell him that you miss your own fun with him and when can you plan your nex late dinner. Don't even mention her name. Do you see him on weekends?
no. no sex.
we used to do things on the weekend....now she tags along. she calls and says 'hey, let's to go do whatever' and he says 'ok' and the three of us go. it's really strange.
Maybe you should find her a boyfriend ;)
Anyway, let him know that you miss spending weekends with him alone. Try not to get defensive or even mention her name.
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