BF did something really disgusting

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BF did something really disgusting
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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 3:11pm
Okay, I can't even post what it is it's so gross, but I saw my BF of 3 years do something recently that I can't get out of my head, and he did it twice. I didn't even know what to say when I saw him do it, so I pretended not to notice. It's not the kind of thing you do by accident.

What would you do if you saw your BF do something so disgusting it turned your stomach?

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 3:33pm
You're going to have to get some deeper level of specific - at least in general!

Did he do drugs - leave him.

Did he get drunk and puke everywhere - if that's a common thing for him to do and it's just not normally done around you - realize it's ging to be done alot around you and it's just starting if it is "what he always does everywhere he goes and he's just been not doing it around you".

Did he drool over some 36DD chest that was attached to blonde hair and long legs? Get over it - who wouldn't drool and you only WISH that was you.

See....he did something so disgusting - it's just too vague to know what to tell you.

Erin

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 3:43pm
Okay, but I'm warning you in advance!

I saw him pick his nose, then put his finger in his mouth. Twice. I am not kidding. This is not a troll post. He is 25 years old. The first time I thought maybe I was seeing things, but then he did it again. I didn't say anything because I didn't know what to say.

In the past he has gotten drunk and puked all over the place, that I dealt with. He's occasionally drooled over another woman, that I dealt with. I do not think I can deal with this nose thing. I can't even kiss him now and once recently when we were making love he tried to stick his finger in my mouth, something he has done before, but I turned my head.

You asked for it!

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:00pm
Well, this isn't osmething you can control or change. The question is...given how it makes you receive and perceive him - are you going to stick with him or not?

Erin

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:02pm
Picking is okay. The eating part is pretty revolting. I mean who hasn't picked their nose before? But the eating part, that really does turn the stomach - my two and a half year old is really into it at the moment and I don't like it either. I am hoping she'll grow out of it, however. As for your boyfriend. Tell him. Tell him you saw him 'eat it' and you cannot and will not abide it and you want a solemn promise from him that he will never ever ever eat it again.

Then, do your best to chalk it up to clueless male antics - I'm sure once he realizes that it's grossed you out to the extent that it has, he'll be able to refrain from 'snacking'.

Peace - Pebbles

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:02pm
How about next time saying "omigod, that is so gross!"


Carrie

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:09pm
I know, I should have done that before. It was just shocking, you know, to see someone older than two years old do it. Oh my god, maybe I should say "if you're that hungry, how about I make you a sandwich?" Now I'll be watching him and waiting for him to do it again so I can say something. Here I am laughing, but it isn't funny.
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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:28pm
It is funny! (It cracked me up!) And I bet that if you take the humourous approach - whilst firmly imparting the depth of your disgust - it will make it far easier to get over - for everybody!

Peace - Pebbles

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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:34pm
Thanks everyone :) Wow, it took me two days to get up the courage to write that post!
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Thu, 02-05-2004 - 1:38pm
Yeah that's gross, but since you didn't even want to type it out, I thought it was going to be something WAY worse. I was thinking that he took a piss in the kitchen sink or took a dump in the garbage can - LOL.