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Bf doesnt believe me
| Sat, 10-18-2008 - 4:41am |
i've been dating my bf for a little awhile now and i really care about him.He means everything to me.He tells me the same too.He's really good to me.The problem is the other night i made a remark about some other guy being perfect.I really didnt mean too.Anyways its been almost a week and he's still mad and doesnt want to talk to me.The only reason we've talked is bcuz i've emailed him first.He said that he still wants to be with me but that hurt him.He said things are different now.He says he still cares about me and wants to be with me.He's real short with me now.He says we'll work through it and we'll get back to where we were.But i want things back to normal now.I miss him.I poured my heart out to him.But he doesnt believe any of it.He thinks im lying now.He said if i cared About him i never would have said that.What do i do?I want to be with him but im scared things wont go back to how they were.I want him to care as much for me as i do him.Which he says he does.Am i in the wrong?Or is he overreacting?We're two grown adults(he's 25) even tho he doesnt act like it.Its hard for me to be with him when he doesnt believe me..But i dont want to be without himWhat do i do????

How long is "a little while" that you've been dating? Can I assume this was the first time you've made reference to another guy being very attractive?
Every relationship is different - I am betting this guy comes from a history of relationships (or no relationships at all) where he and a girlfriend did not openly admire other people of the opposite sex, and now he's feeling weird about transitioning into a relationship where his girlfriend talks about other guys. We all know everyone finds other people attractive - but maybe the overtness of it bothers him because he's not used to it. This may be something you should learn to be sensitive to. Some couples just keep this stuff to themselves.
He says he'll work through it and so you'll have to give him the time he asked for.
Welcome to the board kala_37072,
It seems to be this is too small of a thing for him let come between you too. Of course it really does depend on some other factors too. Like if you compared the two of them or if you said this while you were maybe fighting. I think the best thing to do is just let your bf know how sorry you are and that you really are happy with him. I am sure in time this will pass. Best of luck to you.
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