BF Doesn't Care!

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Registered: 04-14-2008
BF Doesn't Care!
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Mon, 04-14-2008 - 10:33pm

I'll try to sum this up as short as possible!

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Registered: 01-29-2001
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 11:01pm

Dump him. This guy is making you do all the work, and he is not willing to discuss the future because he is not interested. You clearly deserve someone who appreciates your talents and interests, and who is genuinely interested in working at a relationship.

It may seem like you need to stick with this, but later, you will realize that you can, and will, do much better. You are young, stop wasting your life on a 28-year-old mama's boy who doesn't want to grow up and can't love enough to make a relationship work.

Tobermory

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Registered: 04-14-2008
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 11:07pm

He thinks that since I moved and went away to college- that I "ruined this" and that he is no longer going to try and make things work with me.

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 11:34pm
So he's angry at you for disrupting the relationship he enjoyed. He either needs to get over it and stop punishing you or he needs to let you go.
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Registered: 04-14-2008
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 2:25am

Thank you so much for your reply.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 8:19am

"I feel like I have just wasted my entire college life on this jerk."


I'm sorry, but you really have.

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Registered: 04-14-2008
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 1:04pm

Well, considering all the things he said to me last night, I was sure things were over.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 3:13pm

Welcome to the board lauragirl007,


You will have to mend your broken heart by yourself, or follow the link in my siggy to the Breaking up is Hard to Do board.

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Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 10:12pm
Why agonize over it?