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BF is paranoid
| Mon, 10-01-2007 - 7:12pm |
My boyfriend is cool. I like him but I do not trust him. I started off trusting him. Then, I noticed some weird behavoir. A few months into the relationship he started getting all jumpy around his cell phone. Also, he gets all jumpy when I am around his computer and sometimes clears this history. He does this because I found pics of his ex on his computer. His ex's sister was getting married so it was pics of the wedding. That is excusable. I don't understand why he keeps clearing the history.

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I've worked in the mental health field for years and know just how heart breaking and challenging it can be for the people who love the mentally ill. In addition to all the other good advice you've gotten here, get involved in his treatment. Go with him to doctor's appointments, learn about his meds, his symptoms, his triggers. Do some internet research but be careful to do so in valid psychological sites. There is a lot of mis-information out there and some that could be damaging.
Just know that if you decide to continue with this relationship his illness is a lifelong one and nothing you do can change it. He will have bad times as well as the good times, most likely be hospitalized on occasion. It is just the reality of the illness. That is why you need to be involved in his treatment.
Good luck with this.
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