biatch!!!!!!!! why?
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biatch!!!!!!!! why?
| Tue, 06-19-2007 - 1:55am |
i just meet a sweet guy about a week ago who's very good looking and drives a nice car and has a lot of money. ok can anything be wrong with him? no offcourse not,because he is perfect. Even the sex is the best ive ever had, but also the fastest time ever jumping in bed with a guy. He takes me out, drives me wheerever i like and calls me every day, yet i act like the biggest selfish player bitch ever. I never call him if he hasnt called first and i didnt answer his question when he asked me where i wanted "us" to go ( i know its a little early but he asked)i just ignored him and smiled. He cooked me lunch today and was very proud to do so but i was still a bitch and acted as if guys always cook me lunch although its never happened before. If he doesnt pay attention to me and talks to other girls or is on the phone while we're togeher i tell him that im leaving. I know some of the things are common respect rules but I know that ive taken it too far because i really really like him and i dont want to loose him by being sucha bitch and pretending not to care about what he does, he really goes out of his way to please me. I dont want to loose him but at the same time i dont want him to think that I am a doormat. What should i do and how can i tell him that i really do appreciate him? Today he asked me when I'll cook dinner for him and i said "we'll see" in other words never. I think im just protecting myself but at the same time hurting him. i can tell that i am, however he is so good looking that he always gets his ego stroked and i dont want to be just an\other one of those girls but i dont want to be seen as a ho' thats a bitch and doesnt care about ayone but herself. Today when he dropped me of to go to work he went to hang out with other girls and i became really mad and he didnt know why because i didnt want to tell him i was jealous and that i really like him. i dont want to hurt him but i dont want him to hurt me either what should i do?

>> i dont want to be seen as a ho' thats a bitch and doesnt care about ayone but herself. <<
Well, this is pretty much how you would be perceived at present. But if you want to change, I'm sure you can.
How to show your appreciation for him but not be a doormat? You have learn to be assertive rather than arrogant. Perhaps a workshop on assertiveness training.
Regarding the lunch episode, I'd say learning some good manners wouldn't go astray either. You don't have to fawn over him when he does something nice, but genuine appreciation and a "thank you" is an absolute necessity. Nobody likes feeling as though they're being taken for granted.
Some of the posters may also be able to recommend books about assertiveness.
Something I am curious about though....are you a bitch (quote) to all guys you date? Or is it just this guy? If it is just him, I'm wondering if there is something he's doing which makes you so defensive.
you go girl!!!!!
you keep using and dumping on this guy as long as you can. start asking him to buy you jewlery and take you on nice trips too. get everything you can from this loser while you can!
sarcasm?