blood work and more...

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Registered: 03-29-2003
blood work and more...
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Mon, 10-29-2007 - 10:55pm

negative!!!! Thanks to all of you who advised me to get the STD testing. I am so glad I ruled that out! It's hard enough that I am dealing with the possible dissolution of my marriage to have to worry about a sexually transmitted disease. Thanks again!


For those of you who are following my saga... I haven't decided yet what I am going to do. Many people advised me to stay others to run the opposite way. I am not too hopeful but I think the marriage deserves a chance; however' I have to see what the risks are and the payoffs.....I am scared and demoralized. That's why this decision is so hard for me. On one hand, I don't want to be my mother and take everything that comes my way and be the eternal submissive wife, but on the other hand; we had a great marriage for many years....


Yes, there was an affair (or two) , yes we have been separated for 3 years, yes, he says he loves someone else.. BUT... he's also willing to cut ties (try to anyway) with her and give our marriage a try. He says that, it will be difficult, but that because of DS, he is willing to give it a try.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 1:44pm

Ok, that makes a little

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