Boyfriend has sleepovers with friends

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Boyfriend has sleepovers with friends
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Tue, 12-23-2003 - 6:40pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and have been talking about marriage but I am sick of all his sleepovers with his friend. Once a month, he drives up to SF and spends the weekend with his friend. I think this is ridiculous. He's not 12 anymore! He's 27 and his best friend is 30! Give me a break! I think he should come home at night. After we get married, things aren't going to change. What married couple spends one weekend a month apart while one spouse has a flippin' slumber party? He says he needs to get away and have his guy time. He can have his guy time all he wants without spending the night at his friend's house. Am I totally overreacting? I refuse to be the lonely wife/mother who sits around cleaning house all weekend while he parties with his friends. What should I do?

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Registered: 07-09-2003
Fri, 12-26-2003 - 10:02pm
He spends the night with a guy friend? And goes out for drinks with his grandfather? Sweetie, this is the least of your worries! He could be, instead, spending his time at a strip club, or picking up women at clubs; I think you should be thankful that he has such bonds with MALES. I understand wanting to be with your guy, but trying to be with him all of the time will only create more conflict between you two.

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