Boyfriend In The Military
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Boyfriend In The Military
| Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:12pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 2 years. It has been an amazing two years. However, just recently he decided that he wanted to join the Air Force and successfully graduated from basic training a week ago. I am very proud of him and so supportive. I love him with all of my heart but our relationship is changing and as much as I am ready and willing to make it work, I'm not sure if he is. I want to know what he is thinking, but I am afraid if I bring it up, I will chase him away. I'm not sure what to think or do. Is there anyone in this position? Does anyone know what I should do in terms of making this work, showing him I'm ready for the challenge without scaring him, and managing a way of better communication?

but I am afraid if I bring it up, I will chase him away. '
If, after two years, communicating with your boyfriend about the relationship will scare him away, then you don't ahev a strong committed relationship right now.
'as much as I am ready and willing to make it work, I'm not sure if he is.'
Why? Is he talking about a future without you?
Welcome to the board enlessdreamr22,
You just need to sit down with your bf and have a good talk with him. Let him know how you are feeling and that you are willing and ready to make the relationship work. If you have been together for two years already, this shouldn't scare him away.
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