boyfriend never kisses me

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Registered: 10-11-2004
boyfriend never kisses me
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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 6:31pm
I was 18 and he was 29 when we first started dating. Now its been 4yrs that we have been together. the only time we have been intimate was when we first slept together. And that was the only time we were kissing and having sex...

The 4 yrs that we been together we have sex a lot but nothing else. I have mentioned to him about this and he says to me, "When are you intimate?" I do try to kiss on him sometimes while we are having sex and he would just kiss my cheek!

I love him dearly and he says that he loves me too. But I don't know why he is like this to me. I mean 4 yrs and I thought it would change and improve but it hasn't...


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Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 2:58pm
My sister has been married for 20+ years, she told me that for nearly 10 years of their marriage he wouldn't french kiss her at all. She finally told him, if you want to be with me and stay married, I need to be kissed.

By Dr Phil's Relationship Rescue book and do the quizes with him and share with each other what you need in a relationship.

::I have mentioned to him about this and he says to me, "When are you intimate?"

Did you ask him what he means? Being intimate sexually is different than being romantic and different than being emotionally intimate.

Another good book - The 10 Second Kiss by Ellen Kreidman - she recommends at least 2 10 second kisses each day.


Carrie