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Boyfriend throws me out of bedroom
| Mon, 11-24-2003 - 8:54pm |
I've been living with this guy (his house) for about 3-1/2 years. Whenever he gets mad at me (usually over stupid things) he gives me the cold shoulder, won't speak to me & throws my things out of the bedroom. Says it's HIS room, HIS house, etc. I am forbidden to show him any "disrespect" in HIS house. Help!

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And after so long, youkeep putting up with ihs behavior for what reason?? The next time he tells you to get out, why dont you go somewhere?Do you have a freind or family member that would let you crash with them for awhile?
In any sort, his behavior is disrespespectful and will continue because you let it.
People treat you the way you let them think is acceptable.Next time he threatens you, act on it, and go.It will catch on to him that he cant treat you this way and still expect you to stick around.
Good luck,
For your boyfriend to treat you like that we you two have an argument only exemplifies the level of disrespect that he exercises when dealing with you. You should value your own self-worth more than anyone (including him) does.
My best to you.
Edited 11/25/2003 1:19:01 PM ET by itwinflame
Carrie
I totally know where you are coming from.
Sit down with a piece of paper and a pen. Write down on the top what you make every month, then subtract average rent for your area, household bills, etc. If it is not possible to move anytime soon or even if you aren't ready to leave, put some money away every month so that if one day he kicks you out of the house completely, you will be able to provide for yourself, which is the most important!
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