Boyfriend won't call....help, confused!?

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Registered: 11-02-2006
Boyfriend won't call....help, confused!?
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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 1:57am

I have been dating this guy for about 10 months now, and we were friends before. But lately we haven't gotten to see each other a lot, and he has had a lot of changes happening with his family, some bad some good, and with work and everything, he has been

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 3:02am
I would be concerned too if I were you.
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Registered: 05-11-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 9:37am

What should you do?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 3:53pm

Welcome to the board lilmarie15,


Stop calling him.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 7:59pm

I agree with the others. You have done 100 times your part, now it's time to stop.

I imagine that this relationship is very likely over. And if he ever does call you back... I would seriously rethink being in a relationship with someone who wants TWO WEEKS+ of space when things don't go well. Everyone has arguments, if you can't bounce back then you shouldn't be together. When people need space after a fight it's usually for a period of hours or maybe the rest of the day. This is way too long.

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Registered: 11-02-2006
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 6:41pm
Just wanted to say thanks for your input, and that I'm trying to stay strong. And I hope things are well with you all too!