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boyfriends co dependent sister
| Mon, 09-24-2007 - 10:03am |
My boyfriend of 5 years keeps bailing his sister out of trouble.
| Mon, 09-24-2007 - 10:03am |
My boyfriend of 5 years keeps bailing his sister out of trouble.
We don't live together and we aren't married yet.
Welcome to the board Dani,
If this is somthing that is really bothering you, than talk to him about it. The next time he talks about your future together, meant that you aren't comfortable loaning family members money and ask him if he would loan his sister money if you are married. Then see how it goes.
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'I don't think I want to spend my life with someone who can't stand up to his sister and will be using our money to always give to her.
Welcome to the board dvldogmom,
Next time he brings up marriage, ask him if he's willing to go to pre-martial counseling with you.... if you address the issues there, he may be willing to get himself free of the guilty-feelings about his sister.