Boyfriend's ex

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Registered: 03-07-2004
Boyfriend's ex
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Sun, 03-07-2004 - 4:50pm
My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend even though they have been over for more than a year. He tells me that they are now just friends, and I am trying really hard to believe him. However, I visited her website on an online community and I saw that he left two messages on her guestbook saying "I miss you a lot!!!" I asked him about it and he said that he missed her as A FRIEND. I know that his ex-girlfriend still wants him back because she started sending me notes under an alias and she kept on asking me about my "military man". He knows that she sends me messages and has told me to not respond. I did what he said but she still sends me messages asking about us. Do you think that my boyfriend will come back to her? What should I do?
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 6:00pm
How sad. He thinks it's ok to post on her website "I miss you a lot." without spelling out 'as a friend' so she's getting mixed messages and holding on to false hope that someday he may want her back, and he's ok with her thinking that. I think he likes her attention.

How long have you too been together?


Carrie

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Registered: 03-07-2004
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 7:32pm
We've been together for 2 months.