Let me start by saying I love my boyfriend very much.
Insecure people always feel that someone else is going to hurt them, or be unfaithful to them......so they do what they can to mess up the relationship......kind of "I'll get you before you get me"!
Sweetiepie7, I skim-read your post.
I think you should really do some thinking about this to discover for yourself if you're really happy w your BF or not.
Thank you so much for all your replies!
The problem is that he's a friend of your b/f, so you WILL see him again.