boyfriend's sexual past ...please help

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Registered: 08-11-2004
boyfriend's sexual past ...please help
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 6:10am
hi everyone, I desperately need your advice on this embarassing topic

At the beginning of the relationship with my b/f he told me about his past sexual experiences, that included going on his own to sex clubs, (I don't know how you call them in english) where couples switch lovers and then he started to meet one of this couple, over a period of time, to play games.

I am a very jealous person, I tried to stay open on this, but it has made me feel insecure from the beginning.

We have had many problems during our relationship, but It's always been stimulating and fascinating being with him

I recently discovered that he sometimes still wonders on the internet to visit sites where couples switch partners, he also contacts them as in a game, but then he says he always stops there (never meet anyone), that it's just a game, that it doesn't mean anything...

I've never told anyone about this, can anyone please give me an open minded, honest opinion? thank you