Boyfriends wild actions scare me!?
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Boyfriends wild actions scare me!?
| Wed, 05-16-2007 - 2:10am |
My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. I moved across the country to be with him, he is the most amazing man I have ever meet in my life. We seem to have a lot in common but of course we have our rough times and differences as well. Gradually he has been making very unsafe decisions. He is twenty eight years old and doesn't seem to grasp the basic concept of safety. My friends are scarred to ride around on the jet-ski with him because he thinks nothing will happen since he has more Experience. He ignores the fact that statistics prove otherwise and blames accidents on inexperienced stupid people. When riding his Harley he doesn't wear a Helmet or other protection because he has experience. He thinks if something happens he will fall correctly. For instance a comment he made "If I fell off my bike at 130 mph I would be fine because my friend taught me how to fall. This idea seems off the wall and even crazy to me. To top it off he makes me feel stupid for wanting to wear a Helment and other protection. I told him I didn't want to get road rash or in an accident he said "We're just riding around town and I have years of experience". I do not know how to handle this. I love this man with all my heart but I don't want to have to answer the door to a police officer.

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Exactly why I wasn't trying to diagnose. He certainly needs some professional help.
But getting him to see he that he needs help will be the hard thing here... Virtually impossible at this point, I guess.
Isn't this something that you would questioned when you were dating him??? These behaviors are immature and YES he will hurt himself because as we all know he may have the experience but all it takes is one car to turn in front of him without a helmet and he is toast. You have obviously made the choice for it to be okay because it's been 2 years...this issue should have been resolved long ago.
Sorry I couldn't be more help.
Cindy
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