Breaking Up before Marriage
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Breaking Up before Marriage
| Tue, 06-17-2008 - 2:54pm |
hello...i have written a few posts here but wanted to write again because i'm still not doing well...it's been 8 days of no contact with my ex boyfriend. i saw him 8 days ago and we had a beautiful passionate day - loving, tender, told each other how much we loved each other. then he told me that he needed to be alone - he had a girflriend for 7 years, single for 1 year and then with me for three years. we had been talking about marriage and he got freaked out under pressure. so now we aren't talking. do you think if i give him space he will miss me and come back for me? i know he loves me still - and neither one of us hurt or betrayed the other. i feel like i walk around as half of myself. i won't call him bc i know i have to give him space...BUT...i used to call him all the time and tell him how much i love him...do you think he misses me? notices i'm not there? how much time do you think it will take for him to miss me or figure out that he loves me and wants me back? is there even a chance of this? do couples break up and then get back together and get married? maybe some guys just get scared?

We can't read his mind. Do you have any reason to not take his words to heart?
'we had been talking about marriage and he got freaked out under pressure. so now we aren't talking.'
What did he say when he freaked out? Was he clear about breaking up? Did he say he just needed time apart?
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