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| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 12:45am |
My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 5 1/2 years. He told me he loved me very, very much and talked about moving in together once I graduate college in 1 yr. He also frequently talked about getting engaged. He broke up with me about 2 months ago, the same day that he had planned on going to buy the engagement ring. He told me that while he was breaking up with me. We still talk every day and occasionally see each other. He has started dating someone else, but still says he occasionally thinks about getting back together and if I want I should keep the door open on a relationship in the future. Do you think he is just scared of committment or is it something else. How can I also get him to come back to me, I miss him very much and wish we were still dating. Please help me.
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| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:14am |
Five and a half years is a long time to spend with one person, whether on and off or not. So, if you have doubts as to what his real reasoning was behind the break up, I would ask him, you deserve to know.My guess would be that after five and a half years, he wanted to make sure he was with the right girl, eliminating any doubts.Whether that is a correct assumption and whether it is a respectable thing to do would vary on who you were asking.Bottom line is this: dont wait around or put your life on hold for anyone. If he wanted to be there with you , he would be and hes not.Asking you to keep the door open is asking you not to move forward from this and I feel that if he respected your love and you at all, he would want you to do exactley that, with or with out him.
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