Broke up with Boyfriend
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Broke up with Boyfriend
| Fri, 01-16-2004 - 10:52am |
I started dating this guy 4 months ago. Hes 25 I am 26 years old.. Everything is going great but I noticed after two months that not only does he work a ton during the week I know this cause he works with his parents but on weekend he would only take me out one night a week on the weekend.. I would maybe see this guy once a week... He d suually go out with friends on Friday or bring me along.. We would talk all the time on the phone. I had a discusiion with him on the third month that I would like to spend more time.. He agreed well two weeks went by still not making effort.. So I decided to break up with him ( it was a crying break up and he had tears but was also mad whioch II unbderstand but I have given three chances to start making effort) I felt he had to many other important things to him then me at this time... After 4 motnh I figure you should be hanging out more then once a night..On top of this I went to NEw York for NEw years and he didnt even bother to call me till 9 that night to make sure I got back alright.. I know he liked me he took me to christmas with his parents I think he was jsut immature or something .. ...That was Sunday he has not called to get me back or say sorry nothing I am upset about this I understand I broke it off but I did it and I told him I was doing this becuase I wanted someone who woiudl spend more time with me... Think I did the right thing of lettign it go?
Edited 1/16/2004 11:06:37 AM ET by slp28
Edited 1/16/2004 11:53:36 AM ET by slp28

Do I think you did the right thing by standing up for your convictions and what you want out of a commitment?Absolutley.
Just know that becuase a SO doesnt spend more a couple hours with you doesnt discredit his feelings for you. What it does mean