broken engagement
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| Mon, 01-12-2004 - 10:01pm |
His behavior is kind of confusing. A week after I gave him back the ring he said that he wanted to cancel the wedding, return the ring and move separately. I was devastated and cried my eyes out, but I agreed and then the next day I proceeded to cancel some of our accounts that we have together, and called our photographers to cancel the contract. Then that same day when he got home he talked to a friend of ours (a guy) and then my fiancee came back and said "You know what, hold off on everything. Leave everything the way it is." He told me not to look for an apartment and not to cancel anything else and leave it how it was. So I said fine and then the rest of the week was pretty uneventful. When we did talk, we would have a great conversation, but then he would get quiet and moody on the next day and there would be tension. Two days he gave me a huge hug and then yet another day he just ignored me or didn't talk to me. I'm very confused! He left for a week and a half for work and to spend time with his family and told me that when he had time to calm down (he's very upset and angry) he would make a decision and let me know if he wanted to try to work things out or not. He didn't take back the ring and just left it at home. My friends have told me to leave him alone so he can think. I am wondering if he will forgive me and give me another chance or not. What do you guys think? What does his behavior mean? One day he says he wants to break up, and the next he says that he wants me to leave the wedding cancellation alone. I'm so confused, help!
