Call off Wedding?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2012
Call off Wedding?
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Sun, 03-04-2012 - 4:46pm

I will try to make this as short as possible, but I could really use some quality advice.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 03-04-2012 - 7:04pm

I think you should break up w/ this guy completely.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 03-04-2012 - 7:23pm

To Slope

I totally agree with Music...Your boyfriend sounds very unstable and he is not acting like a normal person would. take it from me someone who dated a man who seemed perfect.. After we were married he turned into a controlling verybally abusive mental case.. We are now divorced and it was a nightmare getting away and getting a divorce.

Yeah; dont marry him because if he is doing t his now it will only get worse..

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2012
Sun, 03-04-2012 - 8:16pm

Thank you for the replies!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 12:05am

Slopesski, his behaviour reminds me of how a controlling person would act if someone stood up to them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 12:10am

#1 - No one has a "bit" of a bad temper!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 10:14am

Hi,

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2012
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 10:41am

I called it off!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 11:06am

Slopesski, I think you have made a good decision, but you have to look ahead to the moment when your numbness wears off and you say, "Oh my goodness, what have I done?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 11:53am

Good for you - and like G said, be ready for him to come back, andbe prepared for some sad times. And you alwayshave support on here.

Honestly, you dodged a huge bullet - my sister's first fiancee was a lot like yours, and he manipulated her into a situation where she had no choice but to leave. Fast Forward, she is now happily married with three beautiful boys :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 12:08pm

oh; I love the advice given here and I agree Slope that you should

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