Call off Wedding?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2012
Call off Wedding?
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Sun, 03-04-2012 - 4:46pm

I will try to make this as short as possible, but I could really use some quality advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2012
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 1:51pm

Thank you all so much for the replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:26am

How are you doing today?

Very good move, by getting it out there and telling friends and family, you will have their support, and that is what you need right now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 10:49am

You should be really proud of yourself for doing this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 10:53am

GOOOD FOR YOU!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2012
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 4:58pm

Things are going well, a bit sad, but things are going well.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 5:10pm

Yikes!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 5:16pm

Yes; I agree with Ollie and please discuss this on the domestic violence board..Your ex is sounding more and more abusive.. This is abusive MO to the max. Dont feed into the threats .. If he continues remember harassment is a crime ...

Please dont answer him when he calls and block him from everything... phone, facebook, email, texts.. Do not answer him.

It is very important to remain NC.. no contact because you cannot engage with a mentally disturbed person.. Thank goodness you dont live near him ..

You should be very proud of yourself ...Keep us posted and vent whenever you feel the need on here..

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2007
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 6:05pm

When bullies don't realize that they are going to get what they want, they change demands/tactics.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 9:39am

stay strong girl! You are so smart to have called everything off. HAve you told your friends and family/? Don;t give him a dime, you owe him nothing!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 10:28am

I'm sorry you're having to go thru this, but at least he is confirming that you made the right move, and just in time.