This man is a cheater. He's unfaithful to you and yet you went and had a child with him.
You have no concept of how to get what you want in a relationship. Having kids with a man does not make him stay. Having sex with a man more often does not make him faithful. Agreeing to marry a cheater DOES NOT MAKE HIM STOP CHEATING. When you marry him, you accept him for who he is - and you are officially giving him free range to cheat on you.
The first step into making a man stay with you is to choose a man who is faithful by nature. You will never be able to change a man who cheats on you. If you choose a man who cheats, then ending up unhappy is your fault. Sex toys will not make him the right guy for you.
Sorry to be harsh here reneckrose but it sounds like you need a serious wake up call NOW! I think in your heart you know you can't believe him. You really need to listen to that.
This man is a cheater. He's unfaithful to you and yet you went and had a child with him.
You have no concept of how to get what you want in a relationship. Having kids with a man does not make him stay. Having sex with a man more often does not make him faithful. Agreeing to marry a cheater DOES NOT MAKE HIM STOP CHEATING. When you marry him, you accept him for who he is - and you are officially giving him free range to cheat on you.
The first step into making a man stay with you is to choose a man who is faithful by nature. You will never be able to change a man who cheats on you. If you choose a man who cheats, then ending up unhappy is your fault. Sex toys will not make him the right guy for you.
Sorry to be harsh here reneckrose but it sounds like you need a serious wake up call NOW! I think in your heart you know you can't believe him. You really need to listen to that.
Welcome to the board reneckrose86,
The information in eggbertshootsfire's post I agree with.