Can I get my attraction to my husband back? PLEASE HELP!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2011
Can I get my attraction to my husband back? PLEASE HELP!
Sat, 10-22-2011 - 5:24pm

I am at a loss and I don't want to get a divorce. When I met my husband I knew he was the one for me. He was the other half of myself that I didn't know was missing. It was great in the beginning, then I cheated. I cheated on him three times before we got married and three times since. We fought and argued and tried to figure out why I cheated and I could never give him an answer. He never dumped me or kicked me out. We would be doing good

Community Leader
Registered: 01-03-2004

"I don't deserve my husband."

This is why you cheat. You don't believe you're worthy of unconditional, stone-cold, love and commitment. So you do everything in your power to mess things up.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2011

Years ago, I used to cheat on my ex and he would forgive me and say he understood. I finally got to the root of my problem, which had nothing at all to do with my ex. It had everything to do with my low self esteem, I never felt pretty or attractive when I was younger and my own mother used to call me ugly and the kids taunted me and called me ugly. When