Can I keep my bestfriend?
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Can I keep my bestfriend?
| Sat, 06-19-2004 - 11:28am |
Ok I am a female. My bestfriend is a male. (NO SEX AT ALL BETWEEN US) We have been bestfriends for 3 years now. Now the problem. I think I am in love with him. He is not in love with me. I try to not be but I find myself jealous over other women and mad at stupid stuff. I am hurting so much because of this. Is there anyway I can keep my bestfriend and get over it at the same time or is the only way to stop the hurting is to loose my bestfriend?

How would he feel if he saw you dating other people?
I know that everyone is different, but for me it feels more natural to let a man initiate a relationship. Once you share with him how you feel, let him pursue you if he chooses, but I would not pursue him.
Best wishes!
sdgirl