Can I trust him?
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Can I trust him?
| Fri, 12-14-2007 - 9:29am |
I'm new to this message board and have been brought here due to my current situation.
| Fri, 12-14-2007 - 9:29am |
I'm new to this message board and have been brought here due to my current situation.
I think you're right in that he hasn't given you any reason to trust him. He has broken up with you because his EX- WIFE didn't like him seeing anyone else? Um....that doesn't sound normal - at all. That's what happens when you get a divorce, you move on, and moving on involves seeing other people. She is way over involved in his life, but I would say that's because your boyfriend wants her to be. If he truly wanted nothing to do with her, and wanted to move on with you, he would break off contact with her. And there's a big difference between staying friends, and
Welcome to the board nadia25,
I think you have plenty of reason not to trust him since he has broken up with you several times because she didn't you the fact that you were dating. Well the fact is, they are divorced and he can date whoever he wants. He shouldn't be letting him influence such things in his life. Plus the text messages you found suggest something more is going on between the two of you. I think you need to confront him about the text messages. He may get mad at you, but that will probably be because he will be trying to get the pressure off of himself and onto you.
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Welcome to the board nadia25,
Can you trust him? No.
Don't trust him because he is obviously seeing his ex gf again.Now if they had had kids together...yes...there would be a reason to still keep in touch with the ex ....so do they share any kids?
I'm sorry because I'm sure you love him very much BUT for the ex to be texting him 'I love you'..that is VERY inappropriate don't you think?AND ask yourself this question?WHY would the exgf feel the need to text your bf those 3 words now?Maybe things have been going on between the 2 for awhile now inorder for those works to be texted to him..understand?
Wish you the best.