Can this marriage be saved?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Can this marriage be saved?
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 5:50pm

Hi,


I'm not one to normally open up to friends/family when I have problems, so here I am trying to find a little help and maybe positive feedback.


I've been married for 3 years, have a two year old daughter and am now 35 weeks pregnant with our little boy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 7:40pm

You'll probably get a variety of answers to your question about learning to fall inlove.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 12:28pm

Welcome to the board shah4606,


I can't imagine how painfully it was for you to hear him tell you that he wasn't in love you and doesn't know if he ever was. I am not sure if that he something he will be able to do or not. My advice and it will probably be hard with a 3 year and a little one on the way is to date each other again. Find some time for yourself and go bowling, dancing, out to eat, to the movies, or anything else that you like to do. You go also try to go away together for a weekend.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 2:08pm

Welcome to the board shah4606,


People fall in love and stay in love not because of how they feel about the other person, but rather how they feel about themselves while with the other person.