Can we be friends again? *UPDATE*
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Can we be friends again? *UPDATE*
| Sat, 06-02-2007 - 3:00pm |
Its over.
He broke up with me today. His reason-His mother has cancer.
I cried. And cried. And did some more crying.
My first love. My only love. Gone.
I spend the next 3 hours in my room, looking for everything that he ever given me. Everything that reminded me of him. Too bad i can't dump the house in the box with the rest of the memories. And the porch, where he proposed to me...
I feel so alone right now.
I don't know what to do. Please help.

All you can really do is try to keep busy and keep yourself distracted. Call friends and try to do things. Even if you're not in the mood, you'll feel better not being alone right now. You should take as much time as you need to feel sad, it's going to take time to get over it.
Once you have some time and get some perspective, you'll probably realize that you're actually going to be better off. If the relationship had really been what it should have been, then this wouldn't be a reason to break up. Be glad you didn't get married and then have him want to get divorced the first time something stressful happened.
Hi bluebird,
Sorry you are going through this. You might want to check out the Breaking up is Hard to do board here at iVillage. There is a link to it under my name.
Also check out this:
Coping With a Break-Up
Welcome back to the bluebird2073318,
I am sorry he broke up with you. Even though the reason he gave wasn't a very good one. My father was diagnosed with cancer last December and I never even thought to break up with my fiance because of it. If anything, he is helpful to have around to talk to about it. I think there is more going on that he is saying. Anyways, take this time to take care of yourself. Go for walks, read a book, watch a good movie, and go out with friends. I know it is hard right now, but things will get better.
Please feel free to post on the board anytime. ((Hugs))
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