Do you honestly think that he's with this other woman? Any other inkling besides the sister that would make this conclusion make sense? Do you have any idea what has been making him moody? Does he talk to you? If so, what does he say? If you leave him alone, does his mood improve?
About his sister... Some people, unfortunately, are just nasty, deceitful, and twisted. They often do things to make themselves feel better about their own twisted lives. She's probably spreading her evil in an attempt to have someone ELSE in her life be the "bad guy" instead of just her. She has an insane idea of what family or marriage means. Maybe she is really messed up over her husband's death, I don't know, obviously there is no excuse for this. The most you can do is to separate yourself as much as possible rather than hope to ever change them. I truly hope your husband is not actually being sucked into her weird world. She doesn't deserve another thought.
Sorry you are going through this. Even if he's not with this woman his sister wanted to introduce him to, it's my opinion that your husband used your question to go off the deep-end and use it as an excuse to leave and walk away AND blame you.
Hi itwin--- and thank you for your reply and welcome. Yes I completely agree, I believe he used my question as an excuse to go off the deep end and leave and blame me.
Do you honestly think that he's with this other woman? Any other inkling besides the sister that would make this conclusion make sense? Do you have any idea what has been making him moody? Does he talk to you? If so, what does he say? If you leave him alone, does his mood improve?
About his sister... Some people, unfortunately, are just nasty, deceitful, and twisted. They often do things to make themselves feel better about their own twisted lives. She's probably spreading her evil in an attempt to have someone ELSE in her life be the "bad guy" instead of just her. She has an insane idea of what family or marriage means. Maybe she is really messed up over her husband's death, I don't know, obviously there is no excuse for this. The most you can do is to separate yourself as much as possible rather than hope to ever change them. I truly hope your husband is not actually being sucked into her weird world. She doesn't deserve another thought.
Welcome to the board jadedkate2008,
Sorry you are going through this. Even if he's not with this woman his sister wanted to introduce him to, it's my opinion that your husband used your question to go off the deep-end and use it as an excuse to leave and walk away AND blame you.
Hi eggbert---thank you for your reply.
Feel free to hang around. There is also another iVillage board regarding Divorce if it comes to that.