Can You Believe This?! NEW NEWS

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Can You Believe This?! NEW NEWS
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Thu, 08-21-2008 - 6:50am
Hello everyone, I'm back again. I recently started a discussion about how my husband had left me and my son
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 7:35am

I'm sorry you are going through this Kate.


However, I would advise you to not be so harsh on his family.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 12:14pm

::She stated he told her he left because he thinks I'm chatting with men here on the internet. WHAT??? I mean, no way.


He's found another excuse.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 3:54pm

Thank you true blue. I agree they are not dysfunctional or crazy for wanting to protect him. I meant they are generally dysfunctional/ crazy. I mean his sister has very low morals; it was wrong of her to try to introduce him to some other woman. But she thinks it is ok; after all she broke up a home without guilt or remorse. Now that is crazy or dysfunctional. Also, some of his brothers/ sisters have clinical depression. There is more to this situition than I realize but I'll eventually figure it out. Well, that is why I will not accept his mother's calls. She is calling to put her nose where it doesn't belong I now realize. I have not been calling her.


True, since I don't know the full story just yet, there is no telling what stories he is telling them, I agree and thank you for pointing that out. Now I'm having better understanding of this situation...thank you so much.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 4:02pm
Thank you, itwin. I'm getting better understanding of all this. I would do the same; talk to him instead of assuming stuff. Yes, he must be doing as exactly as he wants and is just making excuses. Yes, I agree I can't make him talk so I'm going to just wait it out and see if he will come forward. Hopefully he will tell me everything. That is what I would tell my mother in law if I were talking to her....and just leave it at that. True, waiting is hard but I'll be patient.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 7:28pm

His mother is in a difficult position. Her problem is not saying to you and her son that she will not get involved.


What about your son? Think about what is in your control and what is best for him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 10:17pm

>>His mother is in a difficult position. Her problem is not saying to you and her son that she will not get involved.<<


I was having this thought too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 12:27am

Hi ciao gina- thank you for your reply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 12:34am
Well why would they want to support him when he is acting so childish?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 1:58am

Kate, please don't think I'm condoning his actions.