can you forgive??

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2008
can you forgive??
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 1:12pm
OK so this is my problem That I could really use help with.
My husband of 6 years left me and our son for another woman this past march and it has now been seven months, he has came to me in this week and told me that he wants nothing more in life than to come home and be with his family. He was crying and putting on this whole todo you know the one.. Oh did I mention he left for my best friend?? I just don't know what to do I love him so much and so does our son..to let him back? to stay parted?
I just cant figure out the right choice?! can we live together knowing all to well of the things done and said? Is it possible to forgive such an act? Is love really strong enough to prevail? please help me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: sjb_j13
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 1:20pm

Welcome to the board sjb_j13,


I'm sorry you are going through this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: sjb_j13
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 3:45pm

Welcome to the board sjb_j13,


Wow some best friend huh!


If you want to try and get back together with him, I would take things slowly. There is no need to have him . move right back in.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
In reply to: sjb_j13
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 6:43pm
Try to get to the heart of why he returned. My first exhusband returned because things didnt work out with the other woman and I felt he was just scared of being alone so I declined reconciliation.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: sjb_j13
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 4:30am
I agree with sugarbaby - it's unlikely he returned to you of his own accord, most likely she dumped him and he felt lonely.