Can't get on with his family and friends
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|Thu, 10-20-2011 - 3:27pm|
I've been with my partner for almost two years. We moved in together almost immediately.
We enjoy each other's company and have a great sex life. My daughter loves him. We come from very different backgrounds and have very different opinions, expectations and ways of doing things, which can cause a problem.
I got on ok with his family to start with, mainly because I kept my mouth shut. There have been lies told about me, public attacks on me (you guessed it: Facebook), talking behind my back and I finally had enough. I retaliated on a few occassions and have now fallen out with his mum, two of his cousins and a few friends.
This is putting a major strain on our relationship and he has now moved out so that his family can visit as I said I didn't want them in my house when they treated me like that.
Tonight his mum's visiting along with a couple of his friend's. It feels like he has a house full of people that hate me and with all that goes on behind my back I find it very unsettling. I also feel very jealous because he's having fun and I'm not invited. I know that probably sounds stupid but it feels like I'm excluded, like I'm an outcast.
I don't know how to resolve the situation as I refuse to accept their lack of respect towarsd me, I don't trust them at all and I can't see us ever wanting to be in the same room. He's already told them that he loves me and is staying with me but it doesn't seem to have had much of an effect.
Do you have any suggestions as to how I can deal with this please?