Can't get over EA!! Please Help!!
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Can't get over EA!! Please Help!!
| Tue, 07-24-2007 - 12:37pm |
I'm still fairly new here but have posted an email asking for advice when the whole EA happened. To sum everything up, my husband and I worked at his family's restaurant and 6 months after we were married, I found a letter that one of his 19 yr old co-worker's had written him (he's 23).She wrote that she loved him and the kiss that they shared was the best thing that ever happened to her. He said it was just a kiss on the cheek (yeah right). The letter was evidently 4 months old when I found it. I also found numerous text messages, emails, and nearly-naked pic messages. We tried marriage counseling but I ended it because there were issues that i needed to take care of for me before I could take care of issues with us. We have been married for one yr and i still can't get over it. He still works at the restaurant which really bothers me, but 3 weeks ago the "girl" did finally leave. I can't seem to go a whole week without seeing her or hearing her name. I don't think I'm the type of person to get over this and be o.k. I'm trying to let it go but I have so much anger and resentment built up against him that it still feels like it happened only yesterday! Will I be able to let this go and move on with my life and marriage, or do I need to end it?

Hi kt_8683,
It takes a long time to heal from a betrayal.