'Casually' mentioning his exes
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'Casually' mentioning his exes
| Tue, 07-22-2008 - 8:39am |
I've been in a relationships for 3 months.
| Tue, 07-22-2008 - 8:39am |
I've been in a relationships for 3 months.
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Holy cow shedevil788, with all this clarification and more examples, I wonder why you downplayed it in your first post?
Thing is, about the ex (there are more that he mentions, there's one that's still actively running after him), I can't forbid him to have any contact with them anymore?
Correct me if I'm wrong but I think most people that post a thread on these boards, do so because they want other people's view/advice/opinion on how to handle something that's bothering them.
If it bothers you that I ask the question, then don't answer it.
I am contemplating my options, I just wanted othere people's view on the situation.
Other women can show up naked to his door and try to seduce him. It doesn't matter what these girls do or say or how low their self esteem is. Your problem is that your boyfriend doesn't ignore them. He doesn't treat them like exes (no contact) when he knows that he is leading them on by talking to them.
You need to make the right choice for you knowing that you boyfriend won't change. If you want to stay with this 'one hell of a guy' then you have to accept the other women in his life.
For me, it would not be about giving an ultimatum, it would be about openingly and honestly telling him what you need and want in a relationship.
I prefer to live life with the least amount of baggage possible and that would mean that I would treat an ex like what he is...an ex.
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